Saturday, 29 May 2010
tiba-tiba teringat pasal umur ni..mana tak nya..masa birthday yang lepas..sibuk dengan exam..haha..tak sempat nak tulis
im 23..im young or old??trivia sungguh soalan..tapi jawapan memang yang menarik..
jawapan dari orang-orang muda..
din..selamat hari tua..dah tua eh ko rupanya..
ada orang dah tua..hahaha
jawanpan orang tua..
baru 23..muda lagi..jangan dok pikiaq nak kawen...
jadi nak pakai pendapat siapa ni??
baik gabung je..
i think im still young but matured enough to go through this worldy-world :) yeah!!!
p/s :kalau luaran dah tua..tapi semangat di dalam masih muda..that's also considered as young ;p
Friday, 28 May 2010
may all of you are in the blessings of Allah..
lately..i think that i've drown in the sea of depression..really :(
don't worry..of course i can manage myself..hehe
so for the last 2 days or so..i've left medical books aside..and started doing other things..haha
currently im quite into self-development books :)
this book is really marvelous..if men are from mars,women are from venus is the kind of book that u need to read about LOVE( oh..by the way i dont even read it...just YET..haha)..this is the book..on how to conquer worry..so whoever thinks that he /she worries a lot..have a glance at this book..will you??it does help..
"i dont want to have a lot money..but i want a lot of living"
the other thing that i did was..watching videos..yeah2..just through the youtube..
but of course it's not about football..mind you..football season has ended long ago..
or spending my precious time just to watch some sexy korean girls dancing in a very sycnhronized manner..for those who really watch these kind of video..no hard feeling ok..but all i can say is that it is really a waste of time..
so now im kind of interested in religious type of video
if you still have ample time after reading this post..can you at least click the play button on the video i've embedded below..i can't really describe the talk by the sheikh..it was just awesome..lots of courage..ah..just watch it by yourself.. :)
rite..i think that's it
do pray for me..
making things lot easier these days..hehe :)
thanks for reading
have a nice day!!
Wednesday, 26 May 2010
rarely,i post something that just copy-paste in nature..but i found out that this article is very interesting indeed..credits to sarah..of course i've asked her permission 1st to reblog...
it may differ on how we perceive this article ..but its ok..at least..i've made you thinkin' :)
HOW TO LOSE A GUY= HOW TO LOSE ME?? (as i'm a guy..of course)
Source : http://www.muslimdiary.com/
(From one Sister To Another)
Life is full of crazy obstacles, but the one that will probably bug you the most and always be getting in the way is the opposite gender. Here, from one sister to another, is a Muslim girl’s guide for how to deal with guys.
How to lose a guy is A Muslim Girl’s Guide For Dealing With Guys those who are not Mahram. It is not steps in breaking up or divorcing. There’s a few NO-NO rules for muslim girls to protect you and yourself.
No Touching! Muslims are forbidden to touch any non-Mahram (Mahram is your dad, brothers, father-in-law, husbands, grandfathers, and the siblings of your parents) person of the opposite gender. That means no patting on the back, no hand shaking, no pushing, no shoving, no holding hands, and obviously no kissing and all that. If you’re in a difficult situation where you think someone will try to shake your hand, the best thing to do is just smile and say, “My people don’t shake hands” and then explain why. And why, is because we believe a woman’s touch is a privilege and she doesn’t just share it with anyone.
No Flirting! Not even with Muslims, not even in an Islamic school, especially not in a masjid! Flirting means that you’re saying or doing things on purpose that make the other person attracted to you. There’s no set criterion for what flirting is, but any girl knows what is and how to do it.
Muslim women are supposed to behave better than the average woman, who has to be beautiful for all the men around her all the time, who are trapped behind their looks and only judge themselves to be worthy if half the men they know are in love with them. A wise dude once said, “Don’t start the mower unless you intend to cut the grass”. If you don’t want a guy’s advances, then don’t do anything to earn them. There’s no point in throwing yourself all over guys and trying to seduce half the world. You really only want to marry one guy, and you want to spend the rest of your life with him, and chances are he isn’t going to be some dork you fluttered your eyelashes at in high school.
No Boyfriends! As a Muslim, you know that having a boyfriend is haraam because it counts as Zina – fornication. Fornication, in easy English, means ‘sexual sin’. Allah expressly forbids romantic or sexual relationships outside of marriage. When people go against that rule, then you get the typical western society where people play sexual merry-go-round with each other, giving each other STDs, using and abusing each other, and destroying the sacredness of marriage as an institution. You can’t even be sort of engaged to a guy, and then “date” to get to know each other. In Islam, non-Mahram men and women aren’t allowed to be alone together (that includes talking on the phone!), to touch (not even shake hands), or even gaze at each other. It doesn’t matter if the guy you like is Muslim, a great guy and the Prince of England, you can’t date him.
No Boy—friends! The easiest way to ensure that you don’t end up falling in love with some guy before you’re ready to get married is to avoid making friends with boys. Of course in school you have to interact with boys all over the place, but that doesn’t mean you should be best buds with them. Probably 90% of relationships begin from friendships. Chances are you’re not ready for marriage, your parents aren’t ready to let you get married, you’re still in school and your crush is not the sort of fellow you want to spend the rest of your life with, so just avoid being friends with him in the first place. It really is the best formula for saving yourself from needless temptation.
When you have to talk to boys in school as teammates, lab partners, group members, and peers, it’s best to maintain a distance. That means that you don’t confide in them, you don’t let down your guard, you don’t unnecessarily engage them in needless conversation, don’t joke around, and never flirt. Yeah it may be a little hard, but this is your afterlife we’re talking about. So many great sisters have put themselves in really sticky situations because they allowed a boy to get to know them, and either ended up liking the boy, or having the boy like them. once that happens you either end up becoming a pair (which is HARAAM!), or having to end your friendship. Instead of letting it get to that point, and then having to kill a friendship that you probably worked hard on cultivating, you should just stop it before it begins. There are plenty of great girls all around who can be your friends and if you really think only a guy will understand your problem, then talk to your REAL brother, or your father, or an uncle.
No Talking on the Phone with Boys! In Islam its forbidden for non-related guys and girls to be alone together because there is the chance for physical zina, vocal zina, and zina of the eyes. That means, with no o ne there to watch you guys except that boogery shaitaan, then you might be tempted to actually DO something, or say gross things, or just stare at each other all lustily. With that in mind, it’s also a safe bet to assume that talking on the phone with non-Mahram guys is a no-no too. Why? Because unless you’ve both got it on speaker-phone and you’re chaperoned by a responsible person, then you’re still kind of “alone” with him. The people in your house can’t hear what he’s saying to you, and his family can’t hear what you’re saying to him. There’s a chance for some bad stuff then, so just avoid it. Not to mention, having some dude saying things into your ear that no one else can hear would be gross in real life, why is it okay for him to talk into your ear via the telephone? For the most part it’s just too intimate.
Be Disaffected! What does that mean? Disaffected means un-affect-able. That means that nothing a dude can say can hit your nerves, make you blush, or get a reaction out of you. It also means that you are uninterested in what they do as well. Imagine yourself being in an airplane looking down o n the scenery below. You’re a little interested in what’s going o n down there, and it may look really nice, but you know that to get to the scenery you have to jump off the plane. Like the scenery miles below you, the guy may look really nice, but you know that to get him you have to jump off the plane …errr…commit spiritual suicide, and though the fall may be fun, you will eventually hit the ground 600 meters below and go -splat– on Judgment Day. Maybe even sooner.
Short of becoming an ice-princess, being disaffected involves putting up a mental wall between you and all of male-kind. They don’t know your thoughts and you don’t care for theirs. You can interact with guys at school within the bounds of Islam, but always maintain a formal distance. Don’t ask a guy how his infected toe is doing. Don’t give him a hug when he looks down. Don’t offer to help him with his homework. Don’t go out of your way to remind him that you exist, and that you’re not half bad looking. Even if you don’t feel like behaving, make yourself behave anyway, your afterlife is important enough to discipline yourself for.
The safest philosophy when dealing with guys is remembering this “He’s not what I want, so why should I do anything to make him interested in me? That’ll just make for a painfully awkward situation and it’s not worth the sin anyhow.”
Remember that you’re always being watched! Would you act all giggly and stupid with boys if the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) could see you? No, right? Because you’d feel like an ungrateful idiot for disregarding the religion that Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) took so much pain for just to deliver to you. Well, imagine how ungrateful it is to act like a supreme idiot whenAllah can see you all the time, and it’s really stupid to disregard the religion that Allah prescribed, the favors He’s bestowed upon you. How dumb is it to take the eyes that Allah gave you and do things with them that He told you not to? (like goggle at boys?) How much stupider is it that He can see you doing this, and you know it!
You have no secrets! Not because Big Brother (whoever that is…) is watching you, but because every single thing you ever did will become public domain o n the Day of Judgment, and you’ll be brought to trial to defend what you did. Just don’t do anything that you wouldn’t want your parents, your siblings, your teachers, your friends, and the whole world to know about, ok?
Monday, 24 May 2010
"leader,tak boleh letak status kontroversi..sebab semua orang baca,nanti diorg fikir lain"-friend
for more 'nice' pictures..hit here!!!hehehe
lagu diatas tidak ada kena mengena dengan sesiapa..mahupun apa-apa..hanya untuk bersentimental..dikala mengenang kembali.apa yang dah aku buat..for the past 23 years..
terima kasih kepada semua..i love u all!!
kepada semua 4th year..aku sangat berharap..korang semua support night of reflection..ini majlis kita..untuk kita =D
p/s:to those yang wish for my birthday..millon of thanks to all of you..i really appreciate it..cuma tak la sampai terkeluar air mata :)
Saturday, 15 May 2010
Thursday, 13 May 2010
segala pujian bagi Allah..
alhamdulillah..result dah keluar..dan aku lulus..
i don't expect anything sangat pun actually..jangan katakan A..
kalau lulus pun syukur dah..
sebab soalannya punya lah susah..anyway..tahniah kepada yang berjaya..and as always..to those who are less fortunate..jangan terus menyerah kalah!!!
before this aku bukan kesah sangat pun..kalau tengok orang yang dapat result hebat-hebat ni..tapi bila jadi sr ni..banyak la aku berinteraksi dengan pihak-pihak yang hebat nih..dan sekarang aku menjadi 'kisah' pula bila result diorg ni punya la power..hahaha..SALUTE..tak boleh jadi macam ni..kena usaha lebih lagi.. :)
arsenal has been detrimental to me..seriously..
kalau arsenal kalah..memang sah-sah dah aku malas buka buku..
then nak recover dari down tu..mau 2,3 hari pulak..haha
so please Wenger..buy some experience..rather than plain 'talent'
so that next season..we'll win more games..and i can study happily..
the last time arsenal won a silverware was in the year 2004..and that was the year i took SPM..
kepada semua..jangan lupa..sujud syukur ya...kalau bukan kerana Allah..tak lulus jugak kita :)
thanks for reading,
have a nice day..
p/s : no more "din result bila nak keluar" after this..hehehe
and one more...
All the best semua utk O&G and paeds!!!!
Wednesday, 5 May 2010
Sunday, 2 May 2010
peringatan untuk diri sendiri dan sahabat2
Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Jauhilah kebanyakan dari sangkaan (supaya kamu tidak menyangka sangkaan yang dilarang) kerana sesungguhnya sebahagian dari sangkaan itu adalah dosa dan janganlah kamu mengintip atau mencari-cari kesalahan dan keaiban orang dan janganlah setengah kamu mengumpat setengahnya yang lain. Adakah seseorang dari kamu suka memakan daging saudaranya yang telah mati? (Jika demikian keadaan mengumpat) maka sudah tentu kamu jijik kepadanya. (Oleh itu, patuhilah larangan-larangan yang tersebut) dan bertakwalah kamu kepada Allah; sesungguhnya Allah Penerima taubat, lagi Maha mengasihani.